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Today I am grateful for:

River doing a very good job for me at Liberty. I'm proud of us.

The bigger story, is that today was the "Fun Show" at the riding barn. At first, River was nervous because of all the people and strange horses, the trailers, and so on. It was also really windy, lawn chairs were blowing over, etc. I didn't know if he would be rideable.

He did settle down after a while, and was relaxed, and this was a big deal for me. At the other barn, a few times we had small shows, and he spooked at all the people at one end of the arena.

Today he really didn't do very well in the obstacle class, which was disappointing because we have done so much work lately on this same course. He was just too distracted to pay attention.

Then there was some pole bending, which he did just fine at, but I didn't realize that if you trotted the course, you were still going to be lumped in with those who cantered it, and it was a timed event. That actually pissed me off, because that meant we would have had a better chance of getting a ribbon if we had entered the walking class. Why would you tell a rider that they had the option to trot, but not tell them they would be in the same class as those that cantered?

What really hurt, was the liberty class. River and I went first, and I had a few minutes of warm up where I really wasn't sure if I had his focus, because inconsiderate people brought their horses right up to the edge of the round pen used for the class. Horses that River didn't know. I felt that they did that deliberately to throw off other competitors, and it shouldn't have been allowed. They were letting their horses stick their noses through the bars at River.

That said, when I asked for his focus, he gave it. He worked without any halter or anything at all, and we did the pattern very well, in front of a whole bunch of people, kids running around, noise, and horses fighting for his attention. I was truly amazed and proud of him, and we did the pattern very well.

Then he also worked very well to the young student who uses him for lessons, though her communication wasn't that good. What I saw was how calm he stayed for her, and he did his best to stay with her though she kept getting too far ahead of him and blocking him, causing him to switch sides or halt. He was doing his very best.

So, it pissed me off again that we were somehow lumped into one big class with people who were allowed to use halters and ropes, which isn't even Liberty. It is LEAD LINE. I didn't know that this was the case, or I might not have risked working with him at Liberty, and played it safe. I thought it would give me an advantage to work completely at Liberty.

So, though to be fair the first two placings I felt truly deserved the win, we did not place at all, even though there were ribbons to fifth place. The third place winner had her horse stop to graze at the edge of the round pen, which River did not, he followed me perfectly. As did the fifth place person, who did not do better than River and I at all.

I don't know what to make of it. Sure, this was supposed to be a fun show, but some of the placements in the Liberty class were NOT better than River and I. They just weren't.

It made me very upset, to think that our very good performance was completely overlooked by my TRAINER, who judged the event.

What I am proud of, is River. For him to calm down and do his job in that environment, when we don't really do this kind of thing, is great. For him to work for a kid using a bitless bridle and a bareback pad (she did the pole bending with him), and then at Liberty calmly, is great. For him to work for me completely at Liberty and really stay focused for me with strange horses around the sides, twenty people milling around, a bunch of kids running around, was great. I am proud of us.

Nonetheless, I was very let down by the experience.

When we were done, we just went home because I really didn't feel like being social afterwards.

Good news: my husband built the wooden frame for a wall that will form part of the utility room and the half wall frame that will be beside the stairs.

We watched the "Corner Gas" movie, and really enjoyed it.

I learned that the entire native population of Madagascar can be traced to only 30 women (since mitochondrial DNA only comes from the mothers, the diversity can be tracked this way). Obviously there must have been men as well, but the evidence points to a small group colonizing all of Madagascar, perhaps from being shipwrecked or a lost group.

https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/full/10.1098/rspb.2012.0012

Date: 2022-06-07 07:11 am (UTC)
ratunderpaper: pink boy! (Default)
From: [personal profile] ratunderpaper
I'm sorry the Fun Show (is the official name a gymkhana?) proved not to be much fun.

But huzzah for some hometime progress. Hopefully, spouse will keep going.

Date: 2022-06-08 06:52 am (UTC)
ratunderpaper: pink boy! (Default)
From: [personal profile] ratunderpaper
Same - I try not to compete in a win-or-lose kind of competition else I feel dejected and talentless.

Date: 2022-06-08 07:07 am (UTC)
ratunderpaper: pink boy! (Default)
From: [personal profile] ratunderpaper
Agree - there was a 10 year old in my class tonight who executed perfect triple pirouettes while I stumbled over a single one and hopped around like a kangaroo. It would have been worse if we had been graded.

Date: 2022-06-08 07:49 pm (UTC)
ratunderpaper: pink boy! (Default)
From: [personal profile] ratunderpaper
I think they should have given you a bravery award for going first.

Date: 2022-06-09 06:07 am (UTC)
ratunderpaper: pink boy! (Default)
From: [personal profile] ratunderpaper
A prize would have been nice, but bravery and a clean (if not showy) performance is worthy of accolades - and pride on your part!

Date: 2022-06-19 03:57 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lantairvlea
I'm sorry the show wasn't as fun as it could have been. Also having people with their horses sticking their noses through the fence while you're working liberty is just wrong!

I wonder if your trainer judged you more harshly to try and appear less biased. Still a bummer, though.

Date: 2022-06-21 04:36 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lantairvlea
Yeah, that does sound a bit like playing favorites, which sucks. There's a reason some shows require that judges not judge anyone they've taught within a certain number of months to help eliminate prejudice.

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